Lunchtime Natter, Lifetime Connections: How SES Round Table Discussions Grow Proper Social Skills
The midday buzz of the Surabaya European School (SES) dining hall isn’t just about refuelling for the afternoon’s lessons, you know. For students across all year groups, lunchtime has turned into a rather brilliant and invaluable opportunity: the Round Table Discussion. This informal yet proper helpful practice, where students gather organically during their break, is subtly and powerfully shaping their social skills, growing empathy, and nurturing a stronger sense of community within the school.
Forget the hurried individual lunches and the digital distractions. At SES, you’ll often find little groups of students, sometimes even with different ages mixed in, spontaneously forming these round table get-togethers. There isn’t a strict plan or a teacher in charge; instead, conversations just flow naturally, driven by what they’re all interested in, what’s going on in the news, classroom chats carrying on, or just wanting to connect with their mates.
A Proper Training Ground for Social Skills:
This simple yet rather profound lunchtime ritual acts as a proper dynamic workshop for honing crucial social skills:
- Proper Listening: With no one really leading the chat, students naturally take turns speaking and, more importantly, learn to properly listen to their mates. They practise paying attention, looking at people when they talk, and taking in different points of view – skills that are key for proper meaningful communication.
- Getting Your Thoughts Out There: The relaxed setting encourages students to say what they think, share what they’ve been up to, and get their ideas across in a comfortable atmosphere. This builds confidence in their ability to chat and helps them learn to put their thoughts together clearly.
- Respecting Everyone’s Point of View: With all sorts of different students at SES, these round table discussions naturally show students loads of different ways of seeing things. They learn to appreciate and respect opinions that might be different from their own, growing tolerance and being open-minded.
- Getting the Hang of Social Situations: Without strict rules, students learn to navigate the comings and goings of conversation, understanding when to chip in, when to listen, and how to nicely change the subject or join in. This natural social interaction builds proper valuable social intelligence.
- Understanding How Others Feel: Hearing personal stories, what their mates are finding tough, and their successes helps grow empathy and a deeper understanding of what it’s like being human. Students learn to connect with others on a more personal level, building stronger relationships based on understanding each other.
- Sorting Out Little Squabbles (Without Making a Fuss): While it’s not the main aim, if there are little disagreements or different opinions in these chats, it gives students a casual place to learn how to sort things out respectfully and find common ground.
The Knock-On Effect: Building a Stronger SES Community:
The impact of these lunchtime round table discussions goes beyond just helping individual social skills; it properly helps build a stronger sense of community at SES:
- Breaking Down Barriers Between Years: The spontaneous and mixed-age nature of these get-togethers helps break down social barriers between different year groups. Younger students get more confident chatting with older ones, while older students learn to look out for the younger ones and be good role models.
- Making Sure Everyone Feels Included: The relaxed and welcoming vibe encourages all students to join in, no matter who their usual mates are. This helps create a more inclusive environment where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.
- Making the School Culture Better: The way of having open chats and students interacting with each other during these lunchtime discussions spreads throughout the school, helping to create a more supportive and connected student body.
- Feeling Like You Belong: Feeling heard and connected with your mates is key for students to feel like they belong. The round table discussions give regular chances for students to feel seen, understood, and part of the bigger SES community.
In a world that’s getting more and more into online chats, the simple act of students gathering around tables during lunch at SES to share, listen, and connect is really important. These informal Round Table Discussions are more than just lunchtime natter; they’re the quiet but proper powerful things that help grow essential social skills, nurture empathy, and weave the strong, connected feel of the Surabaya European School community. This natural idea shows that the school understands that proper education goes beyond what’s in the books and grows in the everyday chats and relationships made within its walls.